For the first two years

Right now, one of you is holding all of it.Twenty minutes changes that.

A card deck and guided conversation built for your household — so the noticing, the remembering and the anticipating stop living in one person's head.

Rated 4.8 by 1,200+ parents

Delivered instantly. Print at home or open it on your phone.

A parent leaning over a baby in bed at night while another parent stands in the doorway, warm lamplight on the bedside table

Noticing what's running low

Why it works

The problem was never effort. It was visibility.

It names the invisible work

Noticing what's running low. Holding the schedule in memory. Anticipating what's next. The work with no task attached is the work that never gets shared — so it gets its own cards.

Built for your house, not a generic one

Twelve questions about your feeding method, schedules, childcare and your baby's age. You get your cards, not everyone's.

Nobody's the villain

Not a scoreboard and not a chore chart. The list was never written down. That's the problem, and it's nobody's fault.

It survives the night you make it

A one-page ownership map for the fridge, and a re-deal card for when leave ends, daycare starts, or the naps change.

How it works

Three steps, one evening.

  1. 01

    Tell us about your house

    Twelve questions, about two minutes.

  2. 02

    Open your deck

    Built to your answers and delivered instantly. Print at home or read on screen.

  3. 03

    Sit down for twenty minutes

    Follow the script. Deal the cards. Put the chart on the fridge.

All three

The First Two Years

The Deck, The Handover and The First Year. Everything for the window that matters.

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The offer

This is for you if:

  • You're the one who remembers the pediatrician appointment.
  • You've had this conversation before and it came back three weeks later.
  • “Just tell me what to do” makes something in you go quiet.
  • You're not angry. You're just tired.
"It's not that they won't. It just never got written down."
The guided script booklet, wall chart and cards laid out on a warm surface

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One household · Instant delivery · Use it tonight

$47

  • 60–90 personalized cards
  • 12-page guided script with timings
  • One-page wall chart for the fridge
  • Screen version works on any device

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Two more for the first two years.

A printed caregiver handover manual and fridge card on warm paper

The Handover

Your baby's routine, written down for whoever has them.

Everything another person needs to look after your baby the way you would — filled in, printed, and handed over without a twenty-minute explanation.

$37

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A daily memory journal with capture cards and a pen on warm paper

The First Year

Sixty seconds a night, so the year doesn't blur.

One line a day, prompted. A record of the year that actually gets filled in — because it never asks for more than a minute.

$37

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What's inside

Three things arrive in your inbox.

Affirmation cards for new parents fanned on a soft fabric surface with a cup of coffee

The Deck

60–90 cards, built for your house

Only the cards that exist in your household. Your names already on them. Print on cardstock or read on your phone.

Twelve pages of 'A Gentle Guide to Parenting' spread on a wooden table

The Sit-Down

A 12-page guided script

Timed, step by step. Nobody has to know what to say. Twenty minutes, start to finish.

A May 2025 calendar on a warm paper background showing baby appointments, reminders and milestones on a nursery shelf

The Wall Chart

One page for the fridge

Who owns what, colour-coded to each of you. The part that keeps it alive after the night you make it.

For both of you

It works because it lives in the room with you.

No diagnosis, no scorecard

This isn't a test of who does more. It's a map of what's actually happening — so both of you can see it at the same time.

Colour-coded, not complicated

Each card lands with one of you. The wall chart lives on the fridge, so ownership is visible at 6am and 6pm.

Built to change

Babies change. Schedules change. The re-deal card means the system changes with your household, not against it.

Testimonials

From households like yours.

Portrait of Maya & Jordan, parents of 8-month-old
Maya & Jordan, parents of 8-month-old
"We did it at the kitchen table on a Tuesday. The fridge chart has not moved since, and neither of us has to ask 'did you remember the wipes?' at 11pm."
Portrait of Sam, parent of 5-month-old
Sam, parent of 5-month-old
"The cards said the things I could never get out without it turning into an argument. For the first time, my partner actually saw what was in my head."
Portrait of Priya & Alex, parents of twins
Priya & Alex, parents of twins
"Twenty minutes, and I stopped being the only one tracking the diaper supply. With twins, that alone saved us a fight a day."

You've been meaning to have this conversationfor four months.

Twenty minutes at the kitchen table. Then it's out of one person's head for good.

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