The Deck

The DeckWho owns what, so it stops living in one person's head.

A card deck and guided conversation built for your household — so the noticing, the remembering and the anticipating stop living in one person's head.

Delivered instantly. Print at home or open it on your phone.

A parent leaning over a baby in bed at night while another parent stands in the doorway, warm lamplight on the bedside table

Who it's for

This is for you if:

  • You're the one who remembers the pediatrician appointment.
  • You've had this conversation before and it came back three weeks later.
  • “Just tell me what to do” makes something in you go quiet.
  • You're not angry. You're just tired.

What's inside

What arrives in your inbox.

The Deck

60–90 cards built for your household

Only the cards that exist in your house, with your names already on them.

The Sit-Down

12-page guided script with timings

Timed, step by step. Nobody has to know what to say.

The Wall Chart

One-page ownership map

Colour-coded to each of you. The part that keeps it alive.

The Re-Deal Card

For when things change

Leave ends, daycare starts — you re-deal in ten minutes.

The rebuy

Why you'll come back.

Leave ends. Daycare starts. The naps change. A deal that lasts a year has stopped being true — so you re-deal, and the deck rebuilds around your new schedule.

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One household · Instant delivery · Use it tonight

$47

  • 60–90 cards built for your household
  • 12-page guided script with timings
  • One-page ownership map
  • For when things change

48-hour support guarantee · Digital delivery by email

Not medical, psychological or legal advice, and not a substitute for care from a qualified professional.

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